Many times the concept of cuckold gets confused with swinging or polyamory, but cuckold is different.
For most men that want their wives to join them in a cuckold relationship, it takes the pressure off to perform sexually.
With the couples I counsel, the husband derives sexual pleasure from watching his wife have sex with other men.
Some experts could say that part of this is deeply hurt feelings turned into a sexual fetish.
As this theory goes, the man thinks that because of his small penis or failure to please his partner, she cheated on him.
Occasionally a wife will go along with this cuckold relationship to please her husband and / or because she has an open mind and an adventurous spirit.
At some point though, the end result of this behavior is that she falls in love with the other man, or realizes that she is not okay with this fantasy at all, and is in fact harboring resentment toward her husband.
This also refers to a tradition claiming that in villages of European time, the community would gather around to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gave birth to a child that was not his own.
According to this legend, a parade was held in which the hapless husband was forced into wearing antlers on his head as a symbol of his wife’s infidelity.
Often times because they are insecure with their penis size or sexual performance, they begin to fantasize about a cuckold relationship.
Some men even reported that after they had been in a prior relationship with a woman who cheated on them, instead of getting upset, they found that the idea turned them on.
Indeed, the majority of the men who enjoy the cuckold lifestyle do have some form of sexual dysfunction.
They feel that they are not able to please their wives sexually, so they want another man to do it for them.
In some marriages, the husband may even wear a male chastity belt as a way of his wife controlling his orgasm, playing out the fantasy that he is not capable of controlling it himself.